Jehoshaphat was one of the genuinely good kings. He inherited a solid foundation from his father Asa and didn't coast on it. He sent officials and Levites throughout all of Judah specifically to teach God’s word to the people. It says the fear of God fell on the surrounding nations. For 25 years, he led well.
He had one flaw. He was a people-pleaser. And when Ahab, one of the worst kings in Israel’s history, invited him in close and then pressured him to go to war, Jehoshaphat went. Even though God’s prophet told him not to. Even though it nearly cost him his life. And when Jehoshaphat came home, his son inherited everything, including the alliance with Ahab’s family.
This week’s What We Didn’t Say on Sunday features Pastor Richie Baldwin alongside a first-time guest, Pastor Lukas High, Westside’s Youth Pastor, who preached the Newberry Road campus on Sunday while Pastor David was in Atlanta for a wedding. Both Richie and Lukas preached on 2 Chronicles 17–20 as part of the Kingdom Family series.
Teach It, Model It, Choose Your People
Lucas preached three movements from Jehoshaphat’s reign. First: Kingdom Families teach faith intentionally. One of the first things Jehoshaphat did as king in his third year of 25 was send the very best people — officials, priests, Levites — throughout all of Judah with the book of the law. He didn’t call people to come to a conference in Jerusalem. He sent them out into the towns. “Faith must be intentionally taught, not passively assumed” — and Jehoshaphat didn’t assume it even though his father Asa had led well.
Second: Kingdom Families model faith publicly. Jehoshaphat’s faith wasn’t confined to his private prayer life. There were public prayers, heartfelt and real, and a public fast. The next generation doesn’t just need to hear what you believe. They need to see it where the rubber meets the road.
Third — and this is where Jehoshaphat fell short: Kingdom Families support faith relationally. He taught the right truth but tolerated the wrong influence in his own life. His alliance with Ahab came before his son’s decisions came. The point Lucas made to parents in the room: before we look at the influences in our kids’ lives, it’s worth looking honestly at the influences in ours.
Don’t Fear Man, Fear God, and Find Your Micaiahs
Richie honed in on 2 Chronicles 18 — the one chapter where Jehoshaphat’s people-pleasing identity shows up most clearly. He laid out what that identity actually looks like in practice: fear of rejection, chronic overcommitment, an inability to say no, imposter syndrome, constant second-guessing, and living with one eye on what will make others happy rather than what conviction says is right.
The Spider-Man illustration landed: Peter Parker can’t figure out how to be both Peter Parker and Spider-Man, because he’s trying to please people in both identities — and they demand different things. Jehoshaphat is dealing with the same thing. He knows what he believes. He just can’t hold the line when Ahab turns up the pressure.
Second point: your identity is in Christ, therefore fear God. Richie pointed to Micaiah — the one prophet who told Ahab the truth when 400 others were telling him what he wanted to hear. Micaiah gets slapped in the face in front of two kings. He gets imprisoned. He still doesn’t change his word. He had Micaiahs.
Third point: have Micaiahs in your life. People who love you enough to tell you the truth before you make a Jehoshaphat-level mistake. They exist. You have to let them actually speak.
What Doesn’t Get Said: Finishing Well
One of the things Lukas couldn’t cover on Sunday: both Asa and Jehoshaphat — two genuinely good kings — ended their lives on a negative note. The text is specific about it. Asa, in his final years, stopped trusting God and trusted physicians instead when his leg went bad. Jehoshaphat’s last chapter closes with a rebuke and a failure. Both go down in history as good kings. But the last thing their sons saw was something less than that.
There’s a Fuller Youth Institute study — around 3,000 teenagers surveyed — that asked who shapes their faith most. Parents came first. What’s less expected: grandparents came second. Not friends, not pastors. Grandparents. Even if grandparents don’t know it. Even if they think they’ve aged past the point where their lives are still shaping anyone. They haven’t.
Finishing well isn’t about performing to the end. It’s about running the race in a way that the next generation actually sees how you ran it.
Also in this episode
- Lukas High’s first appearance on the podcast — his intro, his ministry with middle and high schoolers, and the kids who gifted the WWDSOS mugs and coastas (cajun for coasters)
- Elijah at his lowest — right after calling fire down from heaven in 1 Kings 18, he begged God to let him die in 1 Kings 19. That’s what Ahab’s reign did to prophets.
- Micaiah getting slapped in the face in front of two kings and not changing his word
- Paul confronting Peter to his face in Galatians — a New Testament Micaiah moment
- The children’s announcement video at Newberry Road — Aubrey said he had nothing to follow it with, so they just quoted Isaiah 40:8 and ended the service
- Richie’s second service: accidentally called Jehoshaphat “Josiah” and Ahab “Abraham.” As in, “Abraham is the worst guy in the Bible” — one of the best guys, corrected immediately
What Does the Bible Say About People-Pleasing?
People-pleasing — the fear of man over the fear of God — is a thread that runs through both Testaments. Jehoshaphat’s failure in 2 Chronicles 18 shows how even a genuinely godly king can compromise his convictions when someone powerful enough applies pressure. The pattern in Scripture is consistent: identity in Christ produces freedom from the approval of people, while identity in human approval produces fear of rejection, compromised decisions, and a faith that gets quietly undermined. Galatians 1:10 captures Paul’s own settled answer: “If I were still trying to please man, I would not be a servant of Christ.” That’s not a personality trait. It’s a theological position.
Frequently asked questions
2 Chronicles 18 doesn’t fully explain Jehoshaphat’s motivation, but the text gives clues. Ahab was powerful and administratively successful — he had made Israel prosperous, even if the cost was spiritual corruption. He hosted Jehoshaphat with a large feast and a show of generosity. And Jehoshaphat may have genuinely been trying to secure peace between the northern and southern kingdoms through a marriage alliance. But the prophet Jehu’s rebuke after Jehoshaphat returned home makes the problem clear: the motivation doesn’t sanctify the decision. Allying with someone whose trajectory is against God is dangerous regardless of the short-term benefits, and the cost was eventually borne by Jehoshaphat’s son.
Micaiah is a prophet who appears in 1 Kings 22 and 2 Chronicles 18. When Ahab wanted to go to war and consulted 400 prophets who all told him what he wanted to hear, Jehoshaphat asked if there was any other prophet of God. Micaiah was brought in and told the truth: the battle would be a disaster and Ahab would die. He was slapped by one of the other prophets and imprisoned on Ahab’s orders. Ahab died in the battle anyway, exactly as Micaiah had said. Micaiah represents the rare person in your life who loves you enough to tell the truth at personal cost. The spiritual discipline Richie called for: find people like that and let them actually speak into your decisions.
Jehoshaphat’s approach in 2 Chronicles 17 offers a framework that translates directly. He taught intentionally — not assuming that faith would be absorbed passively, but actively sending people with God’s word into every community. He modeled faith publicly — prayer and fasting that the next generation could actually see, not just hear about. And he built community relationally, though here is where he fell short by allying too closely with someone whose life moved away from God. A Fuller Youth Institute study of approximately 3,000 teenagers found that parents are the single most influential voice in a teenager’s faith — and that teenagers themselves report this even if they don’t say it out loud at home. Grandparents ranked second, ahead of friends, pastors, or anyone else..
Scripture Referenced: 2 Chronicles 17–20 • 2 Chronicles 18 • 1 Kings 16:33 • 1 Kings 18–19 • Galatians 1:10 • Galatians 2:20 • 1 Corinthians 11:1 • Deuteronomy 4:10 • 2 Timothy 1:5














